How Can God Allow Pain

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How Can God Allow Pain?

Pain has a way of shaking even steady faith, and it often raises the question every Christian parent, student, or homeschool family eventually faces: If God is good, why does life hurt so much? In this episode of The Educate for Life Podcast, Kevin Conover explores suffering through Christian apologetics and a biblical worldview, showing how Scripture, faith and reason, and real-life stories help us understand God’s purpose in pain. If you’re seeking Christian education that speaks honestly to grief, doubt, and hope, this conversation will strengthen your perspective and point you back to the character of God.

When Pain Feels Like a Problem for Faith

This episode features Kevin Conover in a solo teaching format (with a few thoughtful studio interactions), drawing from years of ministry, Christian education, and worldview coaching. He opens with a fascinating real-life story about congenital insensitivity to pain—an extremely rare condition where a child cannot feel physical pain. At first, it sounds like a superpower. But as Kevin unpacks the dangers and lifelong risks, the lesson becomes clear: pain isn’t meaningless. It’s protective. It teaches. It warns.

From there, the discussion moves into a deeper apologetics question often raised by skeptics: “If God is good and all-powerful, why does He allow suffering?” Kevin walks listeners through the biblical logic of free will, moral choice, and love as God’s highest ideal. This isn’t a cold philosophical lecture—it’s a pastoral, faith-driven invitation to see suffering in light of God’s character, God’s purposes, and God’s eternal plan.

Key Takeaways

  • Pain is not automatically evil; it often serves a protective and formative purpose in God’s design.
  • A world without consequences would also be a world without meaningful moral choices—and without real love.
  • Scripture shows that suffering can produce endurance, character, and hope (Romans 5:3–5).
  • God does not waste pain; He can bring higher goods out of trials we would never choose for ourselves.
  • The gospel proves God is not distant from suffering—He entered into it through Christ.

What if you could feel no pain? At first you may think that may be great. There is a real disease called Congenital Insensitivity to Pain with Anhydrosis. People with this disorder can’t feel severe pain and they can’t regulate their body temperature by sweating. They can die from a severe…

What if you could feel no pain? At first you may think that may be great. There is a real disease called Congenital Insensitivity to Pain with Anhydrosis. People with this disorder can’t feel severe pain and they can’t regulate their body temperature by sweating. They can die from a severe injury that they don’t even realize they have.

So maybe it’s on so great to feel no pain after all. But why is there any pain at all? How could God allow the pain and suffering that we see around us? Today on Educate For Life, Kevin dives deep into the topic of pain and suffering. You will learn some of the reason why suffering exists.

Tune in for a great episode.

This episode first aired on Jan 19, 2019.

How We Can Help You

At Educate for Life, we know these questions aren’t theoretical. They show up at hospital bedsides, in anxious teenage hearts, and in the quiet prayers of parents who feel worn out. That’s why our resources are built to equip families with a clear, compassionate biblical worldview for life’s toughest moments. If you want to go deeper, our Christian Apologetics and Worldview courses can help you respond to the problem of evil with Scriptural confidence and grace. You can start with our foundational training here: [Comprehensive Biblical Worldview Curriculum](INTERNAL LINK).

We also provide faith-building tools for Christian parents and homeschoolers who want to disciple their kids through real-life suffering—not just shield them from it. Explore our family-friendly lessons inside the [Creation Science Curriculum for Kids](INTERNAL LINK) and our practical teaching library in [Educate for Life Online Courses](INTERNAL LINK). Our goal is simple: help you build resilient faith that doesn’t crumble when pain shows up.

Here’s a short excerpt from the episode:

  • “Not all suffering, not all pain is necessarily bad… a lot of good things actually can come out of suffering and pain.”
  • “Pain teaches you things… it helps us avoid problems that are coming or deal with problems before they get too bad.”
  • “This may not be the best world possible, but it may be the best way to the best world possible.”
  • “Suffering produces endurance, endurance produces character, and character produces hope.”
  • “Love must be demonstrated… and moral choices are the highest evidence of love.”

Read the Full Transcript

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[00:01:02] welcome to educate for life I’m your host Kevin Conover and you’re on educate for life radio my websites educate for

[00:01:09] life dot o-r-g if you want to check it out and our topic today is what if you could feel no pain you may or may not

[00:01:15] know there is a particular genetic disorder which makes it so a person has

[00:01:20] no pain one of the kids that that has this disease Jordan Anthony Dungy he was diagnosed to

[00:01:27] age 2 by doctors at John Hopkins Hospital in Baltimore with a rare incurable genetic condition it’s called

[00:01:34] congenital insensitivity to pain with anhidrosis and he’s the son of a very

[00:01:40] famous football coach Tony Dungy Indianapolis Colts won the Superbowl and

[00:01:46] he’s now a sports commentator very famous but his son was born without any

[00:01:51] pain and you know when I talked to my students about this in class their initial reaction as whoa that would be

[00:01:58] awesome I mean you you could play football and you’re not gonna feel any pain you’re just gonna keep going so

[00:02:03] nothing’s gonna stop you and initially that’s a lot of our reaction as wow that would be amazing to be born without pain

[00:02:10] now Tony Dungy son Jordan he can feel a light pressure on his body when you

[00:02:17] touch him but a slap or a touch is the same and so he can’t tell the difference

[00:02:23] now think about it if you’re if you’re thinking about it what else what would have what would

[00:02:29] happen to a child who was growing up feeling no pain as you begin to think about it you start to realize you know

[00:02:34] what maybe that’s not a good thing like I thought it was a good thing and maybe that’s that’s not such a good thing and

[00:02:41] so this is important because when we’re discussing Christianity we’re discussing our faith what what a lot of times comes

[00:02:48] up is why does God allow suffering and pain in the world and I’ve talked to quite a few atheists and very frequently

[00:02:55] they’ll they’ll tell me God shouldn’t allow evil in the world and I’ll say

[00:03:01] what constitutes evil what is what do you mean by that and they’ll say any kind of suffering but of course the problem with that is

[00:03:08] that not all suffering not all pain is necessarily bad and a lot of good things

[00:03:13] actually can come out of suffering and pain but real quickly if you’re listening think about it what what do you think

[00:03:20] would be the problem with raising a child who could feel no pain my I have

[00:03:26] no guest on the radio program today but my producer my assistant here Robert droves in studio hey Robert right off

[00:03:31] the top of your head anything come to mind that would be a problem raising a kid that I could feel no pain well

[00:03:38] there’s the classic hand on the stove example yeah how do you learn to do that yeah exactly right you know that’s one

[00:03:45] of the things that you’re Tony Dungy brings up is that his son can’t learn a lesson by pain pain teaches you things

[00:03:54] right so he has to tell us on don’t put your hand on the stove he can’t feel extreme heat or extreme cold and so he

[00:04:01] can you can tell him don’t do this but he doesn’t learn it right necessarily by

[00:04:07] experience because he can’t feel the pain and so that’s a huge problem as

[00:04:12] Jordan Dungy was growing up is that he couldn’t tell that something was wrong right he runs around the house runs into

[00:04:19] the table and whereas you know another child might go run to their parents and say ouch that hurt and you can explain

[00:04:26] that’s why we don’t run in the house Jordan wouldn’t get that he would just keep running in the house because he

[00:04:31] felt no pain and another one that comes up that a lot of people don’t think about is he actually they had to watch

[00:04:38] him very closely whenever he would play with other kids because he was too rough because he doesn’t know what a normal

[00:04:43] punch feels like or a normal kick right and so Jordan is going around kicking

[00:04:48] and punching people and wrestling with them in a way that’s very painful for other kids but for Jordan there’s no

[00:04:55] pain involved and so again here we see that pain serves a purpose something we

[00:05:00] take for granted actually serves a purpose another thing that this kid did was he he pulled out all his baby teeth

[00:05:07] because it didn’t hurt him before they were gonna come out he pulled out his baby teeth and when it got to adult

[00:05:13] teeth his father said look it you can’t do this again because you don’t get more

[00:05:18] teeth right so there’s another thing Tony also describes how when they would

[00:05:23] play catch they’d be throwing the ball and his son would dive on the grass but they

[00:05:28] you’d throw the ball and if it was on the concrete the driveway he’d dive on the on the driveway also and so you’d

[00:05:35] have to explain to him look you can’t jump onto concrete it’s not the same as jumping in a pool right you you can’t do

[00:05:40] that right and so here’s something that for most of us we take for granted but God has a purpose to our pain so whether

[00:05:49] it’s a toothache whether it’s you know a pain in your chest that’s indicating that a hard heart attack is potentially

[00:05:57] coming or any any kind of other pain a lot of the pains we experience are there

[00:06:03] because they help us to avoid problems that are coming or deal with problems

[00:06:09] before they get too bad and so not all pain and suffering is a bad thing and

[00:06:14] you know one of the one of the things that I think is also really interesting and how this translate over is emotional

[00:06:20] pain now of course his son can experience emotional pain even though he can’t experience physical pain but and

[00:06:28] they’ve used emotional pain to try to help him to learn because you can’t discipline through spanking you can’t

[00:06:35] discipline you know he doesn’t understand the consequences of of what he’s done they Tony said that one time

[00:06:42] he or maybe multiple times climbed up to the top of a slide while he’s playing tag and just jumped right off the top of

[00:06:48] the slide broke his leg and then kept on running right and so he doesn’t feel that pain of a broken leg so so what

[00:06:57] about emotional pain emotional pain in our lives is think about that for yourself when was the last time you felt

[00:07:03] emotional pain emotional pain oftentimes is an indication that hey maybe there’s

[00:07:09] not something right in my relationship maybe there’s not something right in my friendship or my marriage or whatever

[00:07:16] the case we feel emotional pain and so it really changes your perspective when

[00:07:23] you look at the pain in your life and you ask why is this happening in my life why is God allowing this or why is this

[00:07:28] happening and is there something that I need to be aware of that maybe I’m not

[00:07:34] conducting myself in the proper way in a particular relationship maybe I’m I’m

[00:07:40] not giving do consider to somebody else or or maybe I’m being

[00:07:45] selfish or whatever the case might be those emotional pains often are an

[00:07:50] indicator that either maybe we’re not behaving properly or somebody we’re in a relationship with is

[00:07:56] not behaving properly and that is helpful to us because that warns us that hey maybe I need to back off of that

[00:08:03] relationship and I’ve seen that in my own life and I’ve seen that in other’s lives where there’s a relationship

[00:08:10] that’s potentially harmful and the pain that I’m experiencing indicates maybe I

[00:08:16] need to back off that friendship a little bit because of the fact that it’s not a healthy relationship so what we’re

[00:08:23] talking about today is this sort of thing it is an apologetics topic our whole radio program is geared around apologetics which the word apologetics

[00:08:30] just comes from apologia meaning to defend and what we’re doing is we’re tending the biblical view of reality and

[00:08:37] so when we deal with the issue you know a lot of people will say skeptics will say atheists agnostics will say I don’t

[00:08:44] believe in God because if there was a good God he would not allow the amount of pain and suffering I see in the world

[00:08:49] and so this is what we’re talking about today and I wanted to start off because I think that’s a really interesting story what what

[00:08:57] Jordan Dungey has gone through with that that inability to feel physical pain and

[00:09:03] you know CS Lewis has a very interesting quote he said God whispers to us in our

[00:09:09] pleasures speaks in our conscience but shouts in our pains it is his megaphone to rouse a deaf

[00:09:16] world and I think there’s a lot of truth to that I think more often than not when we have pain in our life it causes us to

[00:09:24] sit up and pay attention and go wait a second what’s happening here why is this

[00:09:29] happening what is God trying to communicate to me if a person’s not a

[00:09:34] believer that pain will often steer them back to the big questions in life why am I here where am i going what is my

[00:09:41] purpose and cause us to reevaluate what we think I always use the example we you

[00:09:49] know when after 9/11 happened they said the churches in New York were full they were packed full of people because

[00:09:54] people are going why is this paying half so when everything’s going great we tend to just cruise along and oftentimes we

[00:10:01] pay no attention to you know eternity or the the big questions we just go on with

[00:10:06] our lives enjoying our lives but oftentimes it’s the pain that causes us to sit back and reflect and go am I

[00:10:13] really living my life in a way that is god-honoring and that is also has an

[00:10:20] eternity in mind I’m looking at a bigger picture and so I really like that quote by CS Lewis in Genesis chapter 50 verse

[00:10:28] 20 if you’re familiar with this story you intended to harm me but God intended

[00:10:33] it for good to accomplish what is now being done the saving of many lives and and if you’ve read Genesis at all or

[00:10:40] you’ve been in Sunday school at all you know that that quote is from Joseph and Joseph had one of the hardest lives that

[00:10:47] there was in the Bible he he was sold into slavery by his brothers it never

[00:10:52] got to see his mother and father again for a very long time actually never got to see his mother again she died before

[00:10:57] he was reconnected with his family and then when he was in Egypt when he was

[00:11:03] sold into Egypt he was working really hard for Potiphar trying to be do do his

[00:11:08] best under that adverse circumstance he was framed for trying to take advantage of a

[00:11:15] Potiphar’s wife she was actually trying to seduce him he had done right Potiphar ends up putting him in prison and he’s

[00:11:22] back in prison again and finally he ends up as second-in-command of all Egypt and

[00:11:27] this is at the end of his life Genesis 50:20 where he says you brothers you

[00:11:33] intended to harm me but God intended it for good and so we see again that out of his suffering comes good and so

[00:11:41] suffering is not always bad Hebrews chapter 12 verse 11 it’s one of my favorite verses it says no discipline

[00:11:47] seems Pleasant at the time but painful later on however it produces a harvest of righteousness and peace for those who

[00:11:54] have been trained by it and so again that scripture is emphasizing that and any athlete knows this – or anybody

[00:12:01] that’s gone through difficult times to achieve some great goal knows that it takes a lot of perseverance and often

[00:12:07] that involves pain in order to get to that gold-medal to become that athlete so when we get back we’re gonna

[00:12:15] continue this discussion we’re we’re up on a break here stay with us we’ll be right back we’re gonna talk about why

[00:12:20] did God allow pain in the world in the first place couldn t have created a world where there was no pain at all why

[00:12:26] is it even necessary we know he does you you know make good out of pain but I’d

[00:12:31] rather do without it right you know I think that’s how a lot of us feel so stay with us we’re gonna be right back

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[00:13:38] hey welcome to educate for life thanks for listening today I’m your host Kevin Conover glad you’re here we’re screaming all over the place on facebook and

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[00:14:29] we’re talking about suffering and second Corinthians 4:17 says something really

[00:14:34] interesting it says for our light and momentary troubles are achieving for us an eternal glory that far outweighs them

[00:14:40] all you know I’ve had you know I’ve been through a you know certain amount of

[00:14:47] pain in my own life everybody’s gone through a certain amount of pain and I have a dog little daughter with cystic

[00:14:52] fibrosis and we were just in the hospital for nine days over Christmas right before Christmas she was getting a

[00:14:59] feeding tube in order to help her gain weight and my wife and I have had these discussions about why did God allow this

[00:15:05] to happen to our daughter and and and you know she says you know I don’t want

[00:15:11] I don’t want to have eternal glory and I don’t want to have rewards in heaven I just don’t want to have this pain now

[00:15:16] and I think that’s how a lot of us feel is you know God thanks but no thanks I

[00:15:21] appreciate that you’re trying to grow my character and help me to become a better person but I’d rather just not have the

[00:15:27] pain and I you know whatever you’re doing in life you know whether you’re trying to start a business whether

[00:15:34] you’re trying to become a better athlete whether you’re trying to become a better spouse or a better parent there’s always

[00:15:41] pain involved it takes a lot of effort and Robert just said off the air no pain

[00:15:46] no gain I think that’s pretty much the main you know we hear that all the time and it’s very cliche but in a lot of

[00:15:52] ways that’s very true that that’s the case why why did

[00:15:57] God put the tree in the garden in the first place Robert what are your

[00:16:02] thoughts on that why did God put the tree in there I mean he could have made Adam and Eve and it says that he what he

[00:16:08] told him don’t eat from the tree in the garden and I used to think you know I have I have an answer now but I used to

[00:16:14] think to myself how about he just never put that tree in there in the first place then they they would never have

[00:16:20] eaten it and we’d all live forever any thoughts yeah I’ve thought about that a lot over the years and I think it really

[00:16:27] comes down to giving them a choice in the matter of whether they want to follow him or not I think that’s

[00:16:33] probably the main reason yeah and then that obviously leads to a lot more things to consider yeah absolutely

[00:16:38] and you know as a Christian I think we are trying to answer these questions because we’re trying to make sense of

[00:16:45] what the Bible teaches and and how the world is laid out and I think that tree

[00:16:50] in the garden is one of the most important aspects of creation and what

[00:16:55] God has essentially given us the Bible says that to love God is to obey God and

[00:17:02] you know I when I have these conversations with my students you know talk is cheap anybody can say they love

[00:17:08] you but in order for you to know that they love you it has to be demonstrated it actually has to be acted out you

[00:17:15] can’t just say I love you I love you right if I if I come home and I tell my wife I love you honey and she says okay

[00:17:21] would you mind you know making the kids dinner and I say I’m gonna watch some TV

[00:17:26] and then a little while later she says hey would you mind helping with the

[00:17:33] laundry or taking the dog out for a walk and I say you know what I’ve got some other stuff I got to do I really gotta

[00:17:39] get ketchup on my nap and I got to get some sleep and then a little while later where we’re sleeping and and she wants

[00:17:45] some water and she’s would you mind getting me some water and I say you know what hon I think you really need to get

[00:17:51] it yourself yeah you know that’s really not gonna go over that well after a while she’s gonna say stop saying you

[00:17:56] love me because everything you do says you don’t love me and it’s really

[00:18:02] interesting that God really is in the same situation that the free was an opportunity for Adam and Eve

[00:18:08] not to just say they love God but actually to love God through the way

[00:18:14] they behaved right so so I think that applies to all of us and and that’s

[00:18:20] significant now why is God so concerned about us showing him right that we love

[00:18:26] him because love is an action you can love somebody without feeling loving

[00:18:32] right so you may be quote in love with somebody and typically when somebody says I’m in love with him right I’ve got

[00:18:38] a lot of students at school they’re they’re dating people for the first time and they’re in love with people but

[00:18:45] there’s a big difference between quote being in love with somebody and being loving towards somebody right so if if

[00:18:52] all our relationships depended upon how we feel day to day the reality is we

[00:18:58] would be in and out of relationships all day long but somebody can treat me poorly and I can still act lovingly

[00:19:05] towards them and you know if if my child says something to me that’s not very

[00:19:13] nice which kids do this sometimes right they speak their mind and they don’t have a lot of life experience so they say they say mean things to you I can

[00:19:21] still talk them in at night I can still give them a hug and I may not feel like

[00:19:27] it my feelings may be different but I can still do that and that’s what love really is it’s it’s true love is not

[00:19:35] based or dependent upon how I feel it’s something I do because I want to be

[00:19:40] loving and you know I’ve heard people say well isn’t that inauthentic too to

[00:19:46] act loving to somebody when you don’t feel loving I want to be authentic I want to I want to really be Who I am but

[00:19:52] no I would disagree with that you can still say I don’t feel loving towards

[00:19:59] you but I am going to love you through the way I act and I think the Bible says

[00:20:05] Christ demonstrated his love for us in that while we were yet sinners he died for us now I don’t think God was happy

[00:20:12] about the fact that that Jesus Christ was going to die on the cross but the

[00:20:18] fact of the matter is he followed on that because he’s loving and he loved us and so that’s a really important

[00:20:24] point so so love seems to be according

[00:20:31] to God the highest ideal and we see this in the scriptures over and over again Faith Hope and love but the greatest of

[00:20:38] these is love Paul says and and so you cannot have love in a world where you do

[00:20:44] not have the freedom to choose now what does this have to do with suffering well ultimately we could ask the question why

[00:20:53] is it that God doesn’t turn every bullet into putty and every knife into jello so

[00:21:01] we look at God in the Bible he does miracles right he’ll heal somebody Jesus

[00:21:08] Christ heals a blind man or raises somebody from the dead or or whatever the case why doesn’t he always do this why

[00:21:15] doesn’t he stop bullets or bullet comes out of the gun it’s flying through the air and halfway there it turns to putty

[00:21:21] and just falls to the ground right or somebody’s got a knife and they’re about to stab somebody and as it hits their

[00:21:28] body it turns to jello and mush and just falls through your hands and this doesn’t happen so why is that any

[00:21:35] thoughts on that Robert that’s a pretty deep question yeah that is definitely a big question but I think I don’t know a

[00:21:44] world like that it would be a world with no consequences for actions and it’s like I don’t know I don’t think that’s a

[00:21:50] world in which humans are designed to be because you could never grow you could never gain character you could never

[00:21:56] learn like what’s important and why if none of your actions or anyone else’s

[00:22:01] actions could have real negative consequences yes we learned so much more from the negative consequences I think

[00:22:06] than the positive we were both negative ones like a real lesson absolutely I

[00:22:12] think that’s totally true I think you know the the the truth of the matter is if that God cleaned up after us our bad

[00:22:19] decisions with miracles every time then essentially we could make make no moral decisions there literally wouldn’t be a

[00:22:26] bad moral decision because you couldn’t there would be no negative consequences to anything and so essentially a world

[00:22:32] like that would be a world in which there was no moral choices and if there’s no moral choices than what does

[00:22:37] that mean it means there’s no opportunity to demonstrate love so remember love is God’s highest ideal the

[00:22:43] Bible actually says God is love and so God desires to be in relationship with

[00:22:48] us and he he is even in relationship within himself the Trinity is this

[00:22:55] emphasis on relationship three personalities and one God so it’s three persons in one God that’s the Trinity so

[00:23:02] he’s in relationship even within himself and then we are in relationship with one another and we are in relationship with

[00:23:08] him but the Bible over and over again says that love must be demonstrated why

[00:23:13] did Abraham have to go sacrifice his son what in the world was that all about

[00:23:20] you’ll hear people talking about that it just seems crazy why would God asked Abraham to sacrifice his son well for

[00:23:27] Abraham his greatest the greatest thing for him in his whole life was his son and God was saying am I greater than

[00:23:36] even your son this was a way that the Abraham could show his love for God now

[00:23:41] the the ending of the story is God stopped him from sacrificing his son but he said now I know that you Revere me

[00:23:49] that you respect me that you love me because you are willing to not even

[00:23:54] withhold from me your only Son okay we’re coming up on a break here but

[00:24:00] we’re gonna continue this discussion and we’re gonna talk about you know there’s free will in heaven but why didn’t God

[00:24:07] just start out with heaven why do we have earth before we have heaven what’s the point of that seems like we could

[00:24:13] have saved a lot of heartache and pain if we just started with heaven instead of having earth then heaven

[00:24:19] okay so stay with us we’re gonna be right back this is a great great topic to to think through and and glad that

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[00:26:03] Word of God because what I’ve found is that once we have answers to some of the tough questions that people ask it gives

[00:26:09] us a lot more peace and confidence when we’re talking to people about our faith or wanting to invite people to church

[00:26:15] when we are able and one of the most common questions people ask which is what we’re discussing today is why does

[00:26:21] God allow suffering evil and hell in the world what why does he have hell even

[00:26:27] right and why is there suffering and evil in the world and well it’s one of the common questions that skeptics ask

[00:26:33] or the reason they give for why they don’t believe they say look at if God was all good and he was all-powerful then he wouldn’t allow the kind of

[00:26:39] suffering and evil we say we see in the world in fact some people will say you

[00:26:44] know if God really existed he could have done a better job with the world than the one we are in today and it’s called

[00:26:51] the better world argument and so some people will say God should have made no

[00:26:58] world at all now that’s an interesting one because you know I had a student

[00:27:04] come to me a few years back sadly this kid was suicidal he was actually talking

[00:27:10] about killing himself and I got to talking to him and he said he said my

[00:27:15] life is awful it’s been awful I don’t even know why God made me and I I’d

[00:27:21] rather God never made me it made me in fact he said I don’t think God is real because if he were real he wouldn’t have

[00:27:27] made me and he wouldn’t have made anybody now that’s that’s tough to hear

[00:27:33] from a kid we we talked for a long time and he came out on the other side and changed his mind about his life and also

[00:27:40] about God’s praise the Lord but but we talked for quite a while about that off and on and

[00:27:48] and the reality is is that if you were to say it’d be better if God made no

[00:27:53] world at all this really isn’t a good comparison it’s kind of like saying I

[00:27:59] want to compare an apple to no Apple well you you’re really not comparing it to anything so it’s logically it’s not

[00:28:06] really a good comparison nothing and something have nothing in common to compare so not really a good one now

[00:28:12] some people will say God could have made a world with no free creatures there

[00:28:18] just shouldn’t be any creatures that are free to make decisions now the difficulty with this is simply because

[00:28:28] the difficulty is that one is a moral world and the other is a non moral world now what does that mean so animals

[00:28:36] generally speaking most theologians most people who think about these issues animals are cause and effect machines

[00:28:43] essentially now it definitely looks like maybe some of them have free will but they could they don’t make moral

[00:28:50] decisions right so the issue is is if we had a world where there was no moral

[00:28:57] decisions to be made then that would be a world where there was no love so you you’d have a world that didn’t have love

[00:29:03] now again we’re back to this issue that God seems to place love as the highest

[00:29:08] ideal his very nature is love and relationship is that important to him so you you the the depth of the

[00:29:15] relationships that God is looking for requires that people are able to make

[00:29:20] moral decisions why because the ability to make a moral decision is the premier

[00:29:27] it is the highest evidence of love meaning when I make a decision that is a

[00:29:35] selfless decision right in which I put my place second to somebody else somebody else’s needs it shows them that

[00:29:42] I love them right love requires sacrifice this is why you know I had a

[00:29:48] friend he was a surfer and he was newly married and for his wife’s birthday

[00:29:55] bought her a rundown VW van now if you remember these from a long time ago

[00:30:00] they’re they’re just Junkers and his wife as soon as she saw it he brought her out to show her she started crying

[00:30:07] and who why did she start crying because she knew that the president was not for

[00:30:13] her it was for him he bought it saying it was for her but it was actually for him so how did she know that because

[00:30:20] well love takes sacrifice it’s saying I’m gonna get you something that’s not for me and it’s for you I’m gonna spend

[00:30:26] my money and I’m gonna buy you something right so that being the case there a

[00:30:34] non-free world wouldn’t have any love now some people have said what about making a free world where people can’t

[00:30:40] sin they can’t break any rules well again that’s actually a contradiction or

[00:30:45] what do we mean by that well the word free means can do otherwise means you

[00:30:50] can do something else and a free world that can’t sin is a world in which

[00:30:57] you’re not really technically free yeah Robert so there’s an interesting issue

[00:31:04] that’s kind of shoots off of this which someone then might ask you well then how can we be free in heaven if there’s not

[00:31:10] gonna be evil there yeah does that mean we’re not free there that’s a great and I have some thoughts about that but okay

[00:31:15] I don’t let’s not get too far ahead here because we’re gonna get to that but okay I love that you brought that up because

[00:31:22] and that is probably a question running through maybe some of the people listening to their mind right now is well heaven is going to be a place in

[00:31:29] which worse free right we still have free will but we can’t sin so we will

[00:31:36] answer that question but let’s hold off a little bit because that’s kind of the the exciting you know

[00:31:42] yeah conclusion so okay yeah so let’s look at the next one here’s two of them

[00:31:49] that are really interesting and this really reflects off of the point Robert just made a free world that would not

[00:31:54] sin may not be actually possible it’s possible that God could not actually

[00:32:01] create a world a free world in which people would never sin so somebody might

[00:32:06] might try to make the case that God could have made a world where nobody but but it’s it’s possible that’s not

[00:32:11] possible so and it may be morally and inferior okay now what’s what’s

[00:32:20] interesting here too is you know if you

[00:32:27] have a free world where you would not sin or could not sin you know it’s kind of like me at my home telling my son

[00:32:35] you’re not allowed to have any sweets okay you’re not allowed to have any sugar and then basically we never have

[00:32:41] any sugar or sweets in our house well I couldn’t say wow my son really is showing me how he loves me through

[00:32:47] obeying me because he never eats anything that sugary right but there’s nothing ever in the house right so if

[00:32:55] you had a world that was like that well you still wouldn’t have the opportunity to demonstrate love now again Robert

[00:33:02] said well what about heaven and I think that’s a very good question

[00:33:07] excuse me okay so this this sentence right here that I’m about to share with

[00:33:13] you is kind of the the crux of the issue I think this is one of the best answers I’ve ever heard to the issue of why

[00:33:20] there is suffering in the world this is not the best world possible I think we can all agree with that right from the

[00:33:27] very beginning Adam and Eve sinned Cain kills Abel and and things just start getting bad from there on out in Genesis

[00:33:34] it says that the whole world was filled with violence God was so upset about it the whole flood is based off of the fact

[00:33:40] that the world was filled with violence and so we look around us today and there

[00:33:47] is violence and pain and suffering all over the world and I think it’s absolutely obvious that this is not the

[00:33:52] best world possible but it may be the best way to the best world and I think

[00:34:00] that right there is really powerful this may not be the best world possible but

[00:34:06] it may be the best way to the best world possible what does that mean why does

[00:34:11] God allow suffering and evil in the world permitting evil is necessary to

[00:34:17] producing higher Goods right you don’t have courage without danger you don’t have patients without tribulation

[00:34:22] don’t have character without adversity and you don’t have forgiveness without

[00:34:27] sin interestingly enough Jesus Christ said something pretty profound he said he who loves much he was forgiven much

[00:34:34] loves much he was forgiven little loves little well well the interesting thing

[00:34:40] about that is what that mean is that the person that makes the most mistakes ends up being the person that is also the

[00:34:46] most loving and so our trials and our tribulations Robert did you have that

[00:34:52] verse Romans 5 what was that do you have that handy yeah so it’s

[00:34:58] Romans chapter five verses three through five should I read it yeah go for it yeah so it says not only that but we

[00:35:05] rejoice in our sufferings knowing that suffering produces endurance and endurance produces character and

[00:35:10] character produces hope and hope does not put us to shame because God’s love has been poured into our hearts through

[00:35:17] the Holy Spirit who has been given to us hmm Amen that’s awesome and what’s interesting about that is that is that

[00:35:23] progression right from suffering to endurance endurance to character and

[00:35:29] character to hope you know my daughter was in the hospital over the December of

[00:35:35] getting a feeding tube and what’s interesting about her circumstance is

[00:35:41] that she’s growing very quickly she had to have a IV put in a PICC line put in

[00:35:46] she’s had tons of shots and I’ve had to hold her hand through that process my

[00:35:51] wife and I and it was interesting because at the end when they were gonna pull the PICC line out because she had

[00:35:57] been crying before but slowly what happened was she stopped crying with these things they didn’t they didn’t bother her as much anymore and I saw

[00:36:02] this trials producing an endurance and endurance producing character and at the

[00:36:09] end she actually wanted to watch the doctors she asked if she could pool a PICC line out and if you know what a

[00:36:14] PICC line is it’s a line that goes all the way to your heart and she wanted to pull it out not just watch it she wanted

[00:36:21] to do it herself I was like whoa that’s intense right here’s this little nine year old girl and my wife’s like I have to go I have

[00:36:27] to look the other way and she wants to pull it out right so I don’t know maybe she has the medical field in her future

[00:36:35] but here’s the thing the fact of the matter is is that her character produces hope how because she

[00:36:41] can say I’ve been through this and I have hope to get through more and when somebody else comes to her and goes I

[00:36:47] don’t know if I can get through this she can say I know you can because I’ve been through it before

[00:36:53] and so character produces hope now we’re still going to get to this where we’ve

[00:36:59] got one more segment left stay with us we’re going to talk about this incredible idea that this world is the

[00:37:05] best way to the best world what does that mean exactly and why is it so important for your faith in your trust

[00:37:11] in God stay with us we’re gonna be right back

[00:37:32] hi this is Jason hall president of team home loans a branch of synergy one lending I just want to take this

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[00:38:03] Kevin from the hall family and team Home Loans

[00:38:18] hey thanks for being with us today I hope you’re enjoying the program we’re talking about suffering and evil in the

[00:38:24] world why does it exist and you know I want to preface this with the fact that

[00:38:29] sometimes when you’re dealing with somebody that’s going through suffering or maybe you yourself are going through suffering it’s not always an

[00:38:36] intellectual issue it’s an emotional issue and so it doesn’t always help to give intellectual answers to emotional

[00:38:42] problems right so I just want to clarify that if you have a friend or you know somebody who’s going through very hard

[00:38:48] times the best thing you can do for them I would encourage you is what the Word of God says it says mourn with those who

[00:38:55] mourn and what you’re doing is you’re just coming alongside that person and you’re being present with them a lot of

[00:39:01] times we think you know I don’t know what to say to somebody who’s going through a lot of pain and we we

[00:39:06] sometimes will even keep our distance because we feel so inadequate when it comes to what somebody’s going through

[00:39:12] let’s say they have a kid that has cancer or they themselves have cancer or some other huge tragedy and we might

[00:39:18] even avoid them because we’re thinking or we’re thinking to ourselves I have no

[00:39:25] idea how to help this person but the reality is is that the best help you can give them is not an answer to the issue

[00:39:31] of suffering it’s your presence meaning just hanging out with them doing the dishes mopping

[00:39:37] the floors reading a book just even you being there with them without saying a

[00:39:44] word is healing and and helpful to a person so don’t allow your inability to

[00:39:51] answer the question of suffering prevent you from being a comfort to somebody God

[00:39:57] has designed us emotionally to heal emotionally right so if somebody has an emotional problem I heal it with

[00:40:03] emotional comfort if somebody has an intellectual problem I approach it intellectually and the world is always

[00:40:10] asking the question why is there suffering and evil in the world and so that’s a big part of what we’re

[00:40:15] answering today is that question so let’s get back to the issue of the best

[00:40:21] way to the best world what does that mean exactly in Matthew chapter 26 Jesus

[00:40:28] says this then he said to them my soul this is Jesus Christ talking my soul is very sorrowful even

[00:40:34] to death remain here and watch with me and going a little farther he fell on his face and prayed saying my father if

[00:40:40] it be possible let this cup pass from me nevertheless not as I will but as you will now what’s interesting about this

[00:40:46] this dialog between Christ and God the Father is Jesus himself is saying is

[00:40:52] there a better way is there a better world that could have been made to get to our final goal and we can infer

[00:40:59] because God allowed Christ to go to the cross we can infer that there is no better way this is the best way to the

[00:41:06] best world even though this world is not the best world so in Matthew chapter 23

[00:41:14] Jesus said o Jerusalem Jerusalem how often I have longed to gather your children together as a hen gathers her

[00:41:19] chicks under her wings but you were not willing and again what this tells us is

[00:41:25] that God is allowing people to make their own decisions about whether they

[00:41:30] decide to follow God or not whether they decide to say thy will be done God or

[00:41:35] whether they say my will be done CS Lewis said this there are only two kinds of people in the end those who say to

[00:41:42] God thy will be done and those to whom God says in the end that I will be done all that are in hell

[00:41:47] choose it without that self choice there could be no help and I think this is really important to understand that God

[00:41:55] judges us based on what we do with what we know Abraham the Bible says his faith was credited to him as righteousness he

[00:42:02] demonstrated his faith his loving love for God his faith in God his love for God through what he did he what he was

[00:42:09] willing to do and God said are you willing to love me more than anything in

[00:42:16] your life including your own son and Abraham demonstrated that he was and

[00:42:22] Robert you brought up a great point yeah earlier off the air can you can you

[00:42:27] explain your explain that point again yeah so concerning Abraham and Isaac and this is actually I think for at least

[00:42:34] hundreds of years if not longer this has been like a favorite point of atheists and skeptics where they’re like clearly

[00:42:40] this is just God being cruel you can’t justify it he’s just being a jerk he’s just asking Abraham to do something

[00:42:46] awful and then he’s like nevermind or just kidding yeah yeah that’s definitely not a fair representation of what’s

[00:42:52] happening but another what’s interesting is God is actually giving Abraham and

[00:42:57] the readers of his word like a preview of what’s going to happen with Jesus later so it’s far from a pointless event

[00:43:04] what he’s really doing is showing Abraham how difficult the thing that he himself is later going to do is and how

[00:43:11] much love it takes to be willing to give up your own son because in the end God didn’t make Abraham give up his own son

[00:43:18] but he did give up his own son and so Abraham probably knows better than anyone how difficult it was for God to

[00:43:25] allow Jesus to die for us and like there’s just like it would take so much love to be able to go through with that

[00:43:32] decision yeah absolutely I think it’s incredible because like you were saying I think that that’s a brilliant point

[00:43:38] that God did not expect Abraham to do that but God Himself said I I am willing

[00:43:45] to do that and God became a man in the person of Jesus Christ and he died in

[00:43:51] our place so we wouldn’t have to die he died he paid the penalty for our own sin

[00:43:58] and it’s very clear God is just he cannot allow sin to go unpunished he can’t just look the other way a good God

[00:44:05] must follow through with justice he’s incredibly fair he’s incredibly just

[00:44:11] it’s his very nature he can’t deny himself and a good judge is always going to carry out the consequences for a

[00:44:18] crime and so the reality is that each one of us deserves to be punished

[00:44:24] deserves that penalty and yet Christ has said I will take that penalty for you and God died as a man through Jesus

[00:44:32] Christ so here’s what we know evil has not yet been destroyed so the the

[00:44:38] typical the typical argument from an atheist or a skeptic would be the

[00:44:44] Epicurus our argument which says if God were all good he would destroy evil if God were all powerful he could destroy

[00:44:49] evil evil has not been destroyed therefore there is no good all-powerful god that’s the reasoning that’s the

[00:44:56] logic but the actual response is this if God were all good he would destroy

[00:45:01] evil if God were all powerful he could destroy evil evil has not yet been

[00:45:07] destroyed and our conclusion is evil will one day be destroyed by an Allgood all-powerful God and the Bible actually

[00:45:16] talks about this what does it say in Matthew chapter 25 when the Son of Man comes in his glory and all the angels

[00:45:21] with him he will sit on his glorious throne all the nations will be gathered before him and he will separate the

[00:45:27] people one from another as a shepherd separates the sheep from the goats you know tragically not too long ago

[00:45:35] Christian Bale actually when getting a ward for a movie said he was inspired by

[00:45:42] Satan to play the role to do a good job of playing the role in his speech I couldn’t believe it he was he thanked

[00:45:49] Satan for inspiring him it was awful you know the the in Chicago they put up I

[00:45:55] can’t believe this but it happened they put up a satanic goat statue and where

[00:46:02] does that come from well the goat in the Bible in this particular verse where Jesus talking goats represent those who

[00:46:08] do not follow the shepherd right goats if you ever how to go they’re kind of ornery and they like to do their own

[00:46:13] thing and they’re they’re troublemakers but sheep follow the shepherd right

[00:46:19] that’s what they do they go to the shepherd and so the best way to the best world what does that mean it means that

[00:46:26] that God is taking the opportunity to look at our heart through what we do

[00:46:32] James says he says you have faith I will show you my faith by my deeds and this

[00:46:39] is why the Bible says Jesus Christ says well the disciples asked Jesus how do we know if somebody’s really a Christian or

[00:46:45] not and Jesus says you will know them by their fruits now this is significant because God does not say you will know

[00:46:52] them by what’s inside their mind what’s inside their heart he says you will know

[00:46:58] them by their fruits by the way they live how does that flesh out in real life and so we can tell a

[00:47:04] person is going to heaven or not by the fruit that comes out of their life whether they’re a go or a sheep and

[00:47:10] interestingly enough it looks like God’s ss of divining who was a sheep and a

[00:47:16] goat is what happens here on earth that’s what this process is all about because the people that end up in heaven

[00:47:24] are people who love God there will be nobody in heaven who doesn’t love God and desire what God desires and the

[00:47:30] people who go to hell are the people who don’t want God who want nothing to do with God who say I want to do things my

[00:47:36] way not your way and this is the sheep and goat metaphor I’m gonna end on this one more verse we’re just about out of

[00:47:42] time here but this is again one of my favorite verses Matthew chapter 13 24 through 30 and this is Jesus talking he

[00:47:49] says the kingdom of heaven may be compared to a man who sowed good seed in his field but while his men were

[00:47:56] sleeping his enemy came and sowed weeds among the wheat and went away so when the plants came up and bore grain then

[00:48:02] the weeds appeared also and the servants of the master of the house came and said to him master did you not sow good seed in your field

[00:48:08] how then does it have weeds he said to them an enemy has done this so the servants said to him then do you want us

[00:48:15] to go and gather them but the master said no less than gathering the weeds you root up the wheat along with them

[00:48:21] let both grow together until the harvest and at harvest time I will tell the Reapers gather the weeds first and bind

[00:48:27] them in bundles to be burned but gather the wheat into my barn and the significance again is that God is

[00:48:34] parsing the wheat and the weeds and this process is happening here in real time

[00:48:40] as we live our lives as we demonstrate whether we love God or don’t love him through the way we live through what we

[00:48:47] do and that’s what this whole process is about so the bet the best way to the better world why is there suffering and

[00:48:53] evil in the world if there was not suffering and evil in the world there would be no morally significant decisions that could be made if there

[00:49:00] were no morally significant significant decisions that could be made there would be no way to demonstrate love and

[00:49:05] ultimately love is what divides the sheep and the goats you are either loving which is defined

[00:49:13] in in obedience to God or you are not loving and so this is a very very

[00:49:18] amazing and there’s a lot more that could be said on it but hopefully that’s an encouragement to you hopefully hopefully it gives you some

[00:49:24] understanding I really appreciate you being here with today and taking the time to listen I hope if you’re interested in more

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